| Location | Whitburn |
| Age | 18 years |
| Date of Birth | 21/02/1989 |
| Date of Death | 26/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 12,491 since 13/08/2007 |
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Deborah Kempik.
21/2/89 - 26/7/07
Below is a copy of the eulogy we read out at our dear daughters service. The service was done as a celebration of Deborah's life. Deborah's mum read the eulogy, Deborah's two brothers, Me and Deborah's dad all recapped on some nice memories about Deborah. Seven of Deborah's friends also stood and either recapped on some happier time or read a poem which meant something to them at this sad time.
Below is the eulogy Elaine read.
Hello everyone. Itβs Deborah, Debz with a zee to my friends. Asked Mum and Dad to give you some info. This is a shortened version of my fantastic 18 year journey through life.
I was born on the 21st of February, 1989 at Bangour Maternity Hospital. This was the day I met my Mum Elaine, Dad George and big brothers George and Alan. At the age of three, I went to Whitdale Nursery. From the age of five to twelve, I attended Whitdale Primary School. Then off to the big scary school, Whitburn Academy. For fun, I became a Rainbow, a Brownie and a Girl Guide. I also enjoyed swimming. Later for fun, lots of fun, I appeared on stage singing and had parts in various pantos and musicals. I was often dragged screaming but when I was, it was off the stage.
In August 2005 as if I had not had enough of our educational system, I enrolled in West Lothian College to study child care, where I met some remarkable people and I even met my first true love, Craig. Along this journey many friendships blossomed and I am happy to see my friends here today.
I passed my exams this year and I was planning to return after the summer break to do my HNC in early years education and child care. Unexpectedly and tragically on Thursday 26th July my fantastic journey ended and my new one began.
My life was lived to the full and I know I will live on in the hearts and minds of my friends and family. Keep in touch with my Mum and Dad. Let them know you are still thinking of me, come and tell me all the gossip and Iβll check in on you from time to time.
02-05-2011
SORRY I'M MISSING CANDLES AT THE MOMENT PLEASE DONT BE AFFENDED IF I MISS YOUR ANGEL BUT BE ASSURD YOUR ANGELS ARE NEVER FAR FROM MY MIND & HEART I'M REALLY STRUGGLING TO COPE AT THE MOMENT XXXX
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEBORAH
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Deborah
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEBORAH
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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SENDING SPECIAL LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU TODAY DEBORAH.
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Happy Birthday Darling
Happy Birthday Darling, another year gone, another birthday your not here to celebrate with all your family, all we have now are the memories of birthdays past, the special one that stays with us all your 18th birthday,your party which all your family and friends came to, the look on your face when your where dancing with dad to Highland Catherdral and the piper came into the party playing it on his bagpipes that look of utter astonishment will stay with me for ever more who would have ever thought that a young girl of 18 would love the pipes and that her favourite tune was Highland Catherdral, so much has happened since your 18th little did we know what the future held for us that night and that you would only be with us for a short time then cruelly snatch away from your family, me and dad came to visit you this morning lit your candles and layed a basket of flowers from us and a basket of flowers from Gran kempik, got you new chimes they are huge and make some noise hope you like the darling also got you a new spinner for your tree not quite sure about it though it is blue with the moon face and stars on it a wee break from the traditonal green but perhaps it will grow on me, coming to visit later on this afternoon and will be back tonight to light your nightime candles have asked all your family and friends to light a chinese lantern for you tonight at eight o'clock tonight weather permitting and me and dad will do the same at the cemetary so hopefully the sky will be full of them tonight hope you see them all darling, We love you and Miss you Everyday You Are Always In Our Thoughtsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY DARLING
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Hiya chickee, brought along a wee valentines picture holder last night it has a teddy bear and the words LOVE on it got dad to print of a picture of you with love hearts all around and he clipped it onto the frame,the only problem is the picture is a wee bit to big when I came to visit you this morning it was windy and the wind kept blowing it over,had to stand it against your candle holder, brought you a red rose and a nice candle this morning and had a wee tidy up lit you tea lites as well, me and dad brought your neice Ava to visit yesterday she kept shouting on Spongebob lol but as we where leaving I managed to get het to say bye bye but maybe that was for spongebob lol, she is becoming a right little toe rag wild as the heather, loves going up to your room and likes to play with your Betty Spaggetti Dolls, she like to sniff your perfume as well and play with all you soft toys but I am sure you see all of this, well I hope you do darling, going to go now will be along soon to light your candles again, have a lovely Valentines Day, and behave yourself with all those young gentelmen angels . Love and Miss You Darling Every Day. Love from Mum & Dad xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Thinking of you
Makes the miles disappear,
Together we're looking at bright decorations,
Enjoying what we like to do,
Thinking of you makes the miles disappear~
For you're missed very much
All year through..
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So just because you're
Far away, don't think
For a moment that you're forgotten.
I'm thinking about you because loving thoughts travel far,
And wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a New Year
Full of wonderful things.
Wish we could be together.
Author Unknown.
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Sending Love at Christmas time,
Merry Christmas to you and your family,
Best Wishes for Peace, Health and Happiness
throughout the coming year.
Love as always Fiona x x
Snowman Blues
by Paul Curtis
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Out of the snowy lawn
The snowman grew
Wearing a hat and scarf
The way that you do.
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With pebbles for eyes
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A smiley twig mouth
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He’s a magnificent site
The snowman that grew
But he’s just snow and ice
And no substitute for you.
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I wish you were here
To chase the blues away
I wish you’d come back
To me for Christmas day.
α¦ Love as always ~Fiona α¦
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Candlelit Heart
A Christmas Poem by Mary E.Linton
Somewhere across the winter world tonight
You will be hearing chimes that fill the air;
Christmas extends its all-enfolding light
Across the distance...something we can share.
You will be singing, just the same as I,
These familiar songs we know so well,
And you will see these same stars in your sky
And wish upon that brightest one that fell.
I shall remember you and trim my tree,
One shining star upon the topmost bough;
I will hang wreaths of faith that all may see --
Tonight I glimpse beyond the hear and now.
And all the time that we must be apart
I keep a candle in my heart.
α¦ Love as always Fiona α¦
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Our broken hearts still love you
Our broken hearts still care
Our broken hearts keep wondering
Why our Angel is no longer here
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Sweet Dreams Darling xxxx
Love Mum, Dad and family xxxxxx
Angel Tears at Christmas
God sends His lovely angel tears
To us this time of year
They float and tumble through the air
And send out Christmas cheer.
Each flake He sends is special
From out of wintry skies
They paint a pretty picture
To soothe our weary eyes.
They glide and twirl as if to say
The season's just begun
And gently beckon to us
To join in merry fun.
Like sparkling gems, they fill the sky
And quietly take up space
They seem to flow in harmony
Attired in angel lace.
At Christmas time when all is calm
We look to things above
For angel tears and Jesus
To fill our lives with love.
A sacred star shines in the east
As Christmas day draws near
A manger scene, a Holy night
And gentle angel tears.
The children gather 'round the tree
To hear the Christmas story
As angel tears fall to the earth
To trim the earth in glory.
His precious tears drift to the earth
So everyone will know
A child was born in Bethlehem
It's written in the snow.
So if you get to feeling blue
And plagued by worldly fears
Just look outside your window
God's shedding angel tears.
~ Marilyn Ferguson © 2001
α¦ Love as always Fiona α¦
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